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Oracle of Stillness-The Writers Circle

Yesterday was a peak experience for me.

I was invited by a group of 7 contemplative writers to join them at Harcourt House Gallery as they gathered to immerse themselves in ‘The Oracle of Stillness: Weaving Coherence in the Chaos’ and then write about it.

I was feeling very sick and didn’t think I could make it, but I knew that I would regret it forever if I didn’t go.

And, oh my word! It was so powerful…. The energy in the gallery of kindness, respect, honesty, presence, integrity, healing and wholeness was like a tsunami of YES… this is the way the world should be!

I am in awe of the insights of this marvelous group of women sages and seers. To say that it was powerful is an understatement.

It was the perfect way to draw the exhibition to a close.

The show ends on Saturday November 22, so if you are in Edmonton, do step into the gallery- you can feel the magic of the writers circle still, I am sure.

By the way, I took one of my looms along to weave words as the other writers wrote. Magical.

Thank you to Marija Nikolajev and Theresa Belter for the photographs.

I’m posting all the images from the Oracle of Stillness here on www.tottietalkscrafts.com

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Oracle of Stillness: Motherhood

I love our 5 year old next door neighbour so much!

The doorbell just rang- He needed to tell us that he had shot his Nerf into the air and hit our roof and was sorry and could he have the nerf bullets back next spring when we clean the gutters?

And, he was freezing and could he please stay in the studio for awhile to warm up?

His Mum said ‘No… we can warm up at home’.

‘But I like it here’. (Aww)

We chatted a bit and then I gave our neighbor/friend back a plant that she had given me when it was tiny and it has now gotten too big for the shelf.

We laughed about trying to get rid of clutter, and the wee boy announced solemnly that Miss Noreen has a LOT OF CLUTTER.

Which I agreed to and then folded up with laughter as his Mum tried to shush his discussion of too much clutter and herd him out the door at the same time.

It was wonderful and I am still laughing. (But Mum, you SAID we have to get rid of our clutter!)


Which brings me to today’s mixed media Woven Woman from the Oracle of Stillness:


“The Songs of Motherhood: Love, Celebration, Laments, Loss, Learning, Essence” and how on earth did I forget to add “LAUGHTER” to her naming?

She hereby will be blessed with the addition of one of life’s greatest gifts: “LAUGHTER”.

And, of course, love… the best gift of all! ❤


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Oracle of Stillness- The Dance

Sometimes, when our bodies are challenged, the best place to dance is in our dreams.

This mixed media Woven Woman tapestry, “The Dance” is part of the Oracle of Stillness: Weaving Coherence in the Chaos series.

I twisted wire to make the armature for “The Dance” and freeform wove the beads to shape her into that moment of stillness that sparks the moment between the movements.

It is the Pause, Breathe, Begin Again that nurtures and heals.

I’m posting all the images from the Oracle of Stillness here to www.tottietalkscrafts.com

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Oracle of Stillness- Curiosity as a Healing Art

The questions: “What would happen if I did this? How can I make this/that work?” are, for me, the key to living a fascinating, intriguing life that is stuffed full of creativity.


This mixed media Woven Woman from my Oracle of Stillness series, is named:
“Curiosity as a Healing Art”.

I wove her face and the narrow bands, made some lace, beaded her body, fused some glass and painted some images, and my husband welded her steel armature to embody these questions about living with curiosity and imagination and how they heal all manner of things in wholeness and harmony.


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Oracle of Stillness-Every Star Invites a Wish

Long ago and far away, when my sister and I were little, our family lived in a small prairie town that was safe enough for children to be free range.

On Thursday evenings, my sister and I would walk to choir practice and then home again in the dark.

The stars were incredible! The Milky Way poured across the sky like a gigantic silk scarf that felt close enough to touch.

Sometimes we stood in awe and stared up at the Northern lights.

Always, always, we made wishes on the stars that sparkled, just out of reach.

This mixed media Woven Woman is partly a sense memory of those magical times with my sister, and partly a celebration of Sacred Geometry.

Her name is: “Every Star Invites a Wish”.

Please feel free to make wishes upon her- whether it’s for wellness, peace, calm, clarity, serenity, kindness, wisdom, abundance, or any and all good things for yourself and for everyone, everywhere, may all your lovely wishes come true.

I’m posting all the images from the Oracle of Stillness here on www.tottietalkscrafts.com

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Three of the Oracle of Stillness Woven Women that are songs of love and rememberance

About 7 years ago, I began working on 2 of the larger figures in the Oracle of Stillness: Weaving Coherence in the Chaos Woven Women by drawing a large Goddess figure in pencil on a piece of paper that was over a meter (a yard) square.  I then took very heavy wire (fencing wire- probably 6 or 8 gauge) and with pliers and wire cutters, freeform shaped the ‘Patience and Perseverance Advise the Ancient Ones.

The rest of the Oracle of Stillness Woven Women evolved from her, so she is the Mother of all the pieces in the show.

I find it amusing that she was also the last of the Woven Women to be finished… I was frantically sewing the last of the tiny Goddess figures to her as my husband, Jim and our grandson, were unwrapping the other figures all around me in the gallery! 

She evolved over the years… she hung in the window of my studio for several years, as I watched the shadows that she cast and tried different ideas out with her.

Then a few years later, just before Covid hit our family, I asked Jim to please weld me a heavy weight version of the large Goddess, so he took my initial drawing and carefully cut and measured and welded a version of her.  He used 1/4 inch steel rod to formulate her and whew… she is hefty!

This iteration eventually became: “Flourish, Yes, Even in the Middle of All This”.  

She is very dear to my heart, as our daughter, Chloe Findlay-Harder, who is a fused glass artist, taught several workshops to our family and I made the face for ‘Flourish’ in fused glass…. I have painted many layers of oil paint over the initial face to arrive at the final face.  I loved our classes with Chloe and have made many elements in fused glass for the Oracle of Stillness figures.  Lots of them have fused glass faces and butterflies and other elements.

Chloe’s husband, Clancy, and I had a wonderful afternoon one Sunday when our family were gathered for our weekly dinner together.  Clancy and I spent a long time talking about ‘Flourish’ and how she needed to evolve.  He and I circled her and shifted elements and talked about the impact of color and texture.  It was a wonderful and inspiring time of deep connection…. and, shockingly, not long after, he died of a blood clot caused by the Covid virus.  Needless to say, this is a piece that I will never part with.  

Clancy also made me a fused glass piece that represented a loom, and I had his permission to include it in one of the Oracle of Stillness figures.  

It is the rectangle at the base of “Remembering”, which is a tribute to his golden heart and beautiful presence.   

Her face is fused glass as well.

“Flourish, yes even in the middle of all this”  and “Patience and Perseverance Advise the Ancient Ones” both took years to complete…. I would work on them, and live with them and come back, over and over.   They each are about a meter tall by a meter wide.  

After I had a dream in which I discovered that the Oracle of Stillness Woven Women all needed wings, I designed and crocheted their wings and then built wire armatures to stretch and secure the wings in full expansion.  

I love the shadows that they cast on the walls behind them. 

They are on display at Harcourt House Gallery in Edmonton AB until the 22 of November. 

These 3 figures are love songs to sing sorrow into compassion and grief into a larger love, as love opens and blossoms and transforms in unexpected, heart-rending miraculous ways….  ❤

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A Weekend Full of ALL the Feelings

It has been an intense weekend….

Friday evening was the opening to my ‘Oracle of Stillness’ show (it was a gorgeous, magical evening!).

But then, our wee Panda Princess, who we have been nurturing through palliative care for her inoperable cancer, had to cross the Rainbow Bridge on Saturday afternoon.

We knew it was coming, but it was still incredibly hard.

Thank goodness for the love of family and the gathering we had this afternoon to support and sustain us all…..

It’s all about love, isn’t it?

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Butterfly Blessings for a Beloved Sister

Last week, my beloved, precious sister in law (sister of my heart) died.

While she was navigating the medical system, I was tatting many many little butterflies, as a way of meditating/prayers of the hands and sending her love…

I love tatting butterflies and then I give them to people as a way of saying thank you to them for their presence.

I thought that she might like to have a bunch of the little butterflies to give to people who have been with her on the journey, but she said that no, she no longer was able to receive physical things.

Instead, she asked me to write a blessing for her that she could print out and carry with her and read it whenever she needed it.

So I wrote her this Butterfly Blessing:

Noreenie’s Butterfly Blessing for her Precious sister, Aleksa:

Dear God, Goddess, All That Is, 

All That is Sweet and Tender, and Ever Renewing,

Ever Blooming,

Ever Returning to Source…..

May the gentle ease, the balm and loving touch

of Your Presence

lift the suffering from our Aleksa….

May she be filled with 

the lightest of lightest of knowingness

and like the Butterfly

may she rest easily 

in the loving 

Breath of the Divine.

with all my love

Noreenie

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ALL THE LINKS FOR THE WEAVING KINDNESS LOOM AND PROJECTS BY NOREEN CRONE-FINDLAY

Here are all the links for the WEAVING KINDNESS PROJECT by Noreen Crone-Findlay

1– What is the Kindness Loom Project all about? LINK

2 LINK to my etsy shop for:

PDF FOR STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS SHOWING HOW TO MAKE A UNIQUE KINDNESS LOOM

This PDF of Step by Step Instructions shows how to make a Kindness Pin Loom. It’s the instructions for you to make the loom, not the finished loom. You’ll make your own unique one of a kind Kindness loom using these instructions purchased from my etsy shop.

3– Video tutorial: How to weave a square on the Kindness Loom by Noreen Crone-Findlay

LINK: https://youtu.be/2fzG2l-Hyzg

4- The video tutorial link for the how to’s for making the Lucky Penny Pouch is on

4- How to weave a Rectangle on the Kindness Loom: L I N K

The links to both the Square and Rectangle are on this blog post L I N K

5- How to Weave a Kindness Butterfly on the Kindness Loom: L I N K to free video tutorial

6- Tiny Flying Joy Pigs – L I N K to my etsy shop for the pattern

7- An update about pins for the Kindness Pin Loom L I N K

8- The woven Kindness Kittens- so adorable! L I N K

9- The Wise Little Mouse- L I N K

10- The Gentle Restful Rabbit- L I N K

11- Tiny Birds of Hope and Happiness and Comfort and More – L I N K

12- A New Version of the Kindness Loom L I N K

13- Kindred Spirit Comfort Dolls L I N K

14- Tiny Kindness Angel Dolls L I N K

15- Tiny Flat Comfort Bears: LINK

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Crocheted Baby Gift- Star Mobile

Last week, we went to a baby shower for friends who are soon to be parents.

I was so delighted to see how many handmade gifts were given to this soon to be among us little sweet person!

Quilting, sewing knitting and crochet were all beautifully shared by the extended family. Delightful!

What did we give to the new baby?

Well, since his parents love space and planets, and have decorated the nursery with all many of space and planet images, it seemed like a good idea to me to give Lil Baby a Star Mobile…. yup… from my book: Crochet Stars. With love, of course! ❤

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